Here is where things stand right now.....
Shamel is back in Georgia and no longer returning calls to the agency. Looks like this adoption is going to fail too. At this point we are thinking we don't want to be matched with a birth mother again any time soon. We don't know if we will adopt again.
To back up a bit....
Shamel went to Utah (at her request) the beginning of December. About 10 days after she got there her father became ill so she wanted to fly home to see him, so the agency flew her back to Georgia. While she was there the birth father of the baby she is carrying was killed. We were not given a lot of detail on any of this information. All we know right now is that it looks like we will not be adopting in the next few weeks like we had planned.